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  • Jeff Forman 10:28 pm on August 25, 2009 Permalink
    Tags: stuttering   

    How not to help a stutterer, the National Grid Way 

    For those who know me, know I stutter. It comes and goes, not really any one situation or context where I am more fluent than others. But one situation has always given me problems, the phone. I don’t know what it is, whether I can’t see the person’s face on the other end to help me along, or just the fact that I feel rushed, and don’t want them to wait, the words are just more difficult to formulate and get out.

    Over the weekend my fiance and I moved into our new condo, which brought all the necessary steps of transferring utility services from one location to another. Most of them I handled online, with a couple emails here and there, but when it came to National Grid, they failed to help out this stutterer. I initiated the electric service transfer, but through the online process, it asked me for my account number (being that I was a previous National Grid customer in NY, five years ago, I did not have that previous account number handy anymore. Seriously?), so I was forced to get on the phone. My fiance helped me out by taking most of the call, after giving her my SSN and other relevant information.

    As we’re getting through the sharing of information, the gentlemen on the other end of the phone at National Grid asks to speak to me, to verify that the information I’ve given my fiance is valid and that she is allowed to open the account in my name. Now while most people might find this preposterous, stutterers have trouble saying their name at times. The most common phrase I might ever have to say in my entire life, and it’s not an unconcious motion. So I struggled to get it out, and answer his few questions. Feeling kind of pissed off after my fiance had told the gentleman flat out “My fiance stutters, but I have his personal information and he’s sitting next to me to answer any questions I might not know.”

    I can understand the security implications of not verifying that she in fact is authorized to open the account in my name, but cut me some slack. Talking is difficult for me at times, and you just gave me one more hoop I have to jump through to keep my lights on. I’m the biggest fan when it comes to online account management,I can’t imagine what it’s like to be unable to speak at all and have to go through these situations.

     
  • Jeff Forman 2:08 pm on August 18, 2009 Permalink
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    There’s wine in Southern California! 

    I have been meaning to write this post for a while, but as you can imagine, work and life got in the way. Anyways..Back in May, I went out with M to a friend’s wedding in Woodland Hills, CA. just north of Los Angeles. Given that we had all of Saturday to kill before the Sunday wedding, we jumped in the car and headed up The 101 towards Santa Barbara and the Santa Ynez valley, where there are a ton of wineries. Thanks to the help of a coworker who did his undergrad degree at UCSB, I had a full list of wineries to visit.

    The drive up there is nothing short of spectacular:

    Pacific Ocean off of the 101

    Pacific Ocean off of the 101

    After a good sandwich lunch in Santa Barbara, we jumped back in the car and continued up the more rural roads towards Santa Ynez and Los Olivos, where the wineries are concentrated. It just so happened that a few weeks ago, wild fires had charred some of the woodland around Santa Barbara. It really hit home having seen in person all the videos you see on TV. But on to the wine.

    The damage:

    • Curtis winery – 2005 Syrah
    • Fess Parker – 2007 Viognier
    • Roblar Winery – No wine
    • Beckman – 2007 Estate Grenache
    • Bridlewood – 2005 Syrah English Pleasure, 2005 Syrah Blue Roan
    • and others that I forgot to write down.

    For me, the list was a big surprise. Normally I am not a big fan of white wine, but after tasting several wineries Viogniers, they were excellent. A lot of character, not the normal flat taste I find I get with Chardonnay. A very buttery finish which I also found in the Syrah and Grenache’s that we picked up. Winies were busy with people of all ages, from college students on up to retirees in wine tour busses. I didn’t find a lot of the wineries on top of each other, which I felt was the case in Napa. You had to get back in your car, and drive to the next winerie, which was a ways down the road.

    Being that we live in Massachusetts, the wine came back with us on the plane instead of being shipped (Thanks MA tax law).

    If lost, follow the signs

    If lost, follow the signs

    Having been winery hopping in Upstate New York, Washington, Napa, and Long Island, Southern California had a very different feel to it. A lot more relaxed, but still enough people to not feel odd that you were the only patron at a winery. And while I love my seasons in Boston with snow on the ground, the weather in Southern California can’t be beat. If I or friends of mine ever find themselves in the Central/Southern California area, I highly recommend taking a ride up here and tasting the wine. If not just for the wine, but the view too.

     
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